Our
Mission |
The Old
Women’s Project works to make visible how old women
are directly affected by all issues of social justice, and
to combat the ageist attitudes that ignore, trivialize or
demean us. We use actions of various kinds to achieve this
goal. We welcome women of all ages who wish to join in our
actions.
This article is about nuts and bolts. Our hope here is to
show how three women, without spending much time or money,
can make a political difference even in a fairly conservative
city. And of course we want to incite other women to activism.
We began writing this article the day after the elections.
Now more than ever we all need to share the work we are doing
in our own communities. |
Who
We Are |
We are three
San Diego women—all old, all white, two heterosexual,
one lesbian, all middle-class—who share progressive
feminist politics. We meet together every Tuesday night for
two hours, usually in a booth in a Chinese restaurant, and
after catching up on our lives, we brainstorm. When we’re
not directly planning an action, we think of ourselves as
a “political support group.” We try to enlarge
our political perspectives by sharing insights and information,
often bringing clippings from the paper or printouts from
the Internet. We always stay open to the idea of new political
actions, ways that we can present our concerns in fresh and
timely ways.
Although it isn’t essential, we think it’s very
helpful for activists to meet for ongoing political discussions
even when we aren’t planning an action. It deepens and
enriches our politics and it keeps us on the same page.
In the past three and a half years, The Old Women’s
Project has organized seven actions, two that drew almost
400 women. Most have drawn fifty or fewer; one of our favorite
actions involved twelve. Carrying our large multi-ethnic,
old-woman puppet POWER (Pissed Old Woman Engaged in Revolution),
and wearing our OLD WOMEN ARE YOUR FUTURE t-shirts, we often
participate in, and are sometimes asked to speak at, actions
by other progressive groups such as Living Wage campaigns,
California Coalition for Women Prisoners, Dyke Marches, an
Arab-American protest against forced registration, and many
more. We have worked in coalitions with some of these groups,
and spoken in their support at City Council or Board of Supervisor
meetings. |
How
and Why We Started |
We first came
together as a political support group of five women who had
done street theater and other actions as part of a larger San
Diego group, Women’s Alliance Against the (first) Gulf
War. We never settled on a name—sometimes we called ourselves
White Women Against Sexual and Racial Privilege, sometimes the
D&Cs (Dykes and Commies). We tried to think of actions that
five women could do, but felt a bit helpless—we did some
bannering, some flyering, some (shhh!) graffiti. It wasn’t
very empowering. But after all, what could five women do? Still,
the talk kept us sane.
One of us was Barbara Macdonald, Cynthia Rich’s partner.
Barbara was twenty years older than Cynthia, and for decades
had been writing and lecturing, with passion and powerful
analysis, on ageism as a central women’s issue. With
Cynthia as contributor, she had published Look
Me in the Eye: Old Women, Aging and Ageism, a blazing
indictment of the invisibility of old women in the women’s
movement and the patronizing and contemptuous attitudes that
she encountered as a white-haired woman. She was the first
to claim the word “old” and organized old lesbians
around the issue of ageism (Old Lesbians Organizing for Change,
a national organization, currently addresses homophobia in
mainstream aging services and ageism in LGBT communities and
services).
After Barbara died at 86 in June of 2000, we wanted to do
work to honor her spirit. One of us had just moved away, so
there now were only three of us. But sometimes the period
after a death can, like falling in love, be an energizing
time. Sitting around Cynthia’s kitchen table that November,
we devised the Old Women’s Project, the t-shirts, the
idea of a puppet, and the central idea of our mission statement
above.
But what would our first action be?
Janice had a longtime deep concern for the homeless, especially
the old women she saw in her own neighborhood; at the same
time, while the cost of housing in San Diego was escalating
at a frightening pace, we saw that the City was doing nothing
to address it. March 8 was International Women’s Day.
So we saw what we have always looked for since: a window of
opportunity to address a timely progressive issue, to show
how it impacts women, and—what is so often not done—to
include old women in the category of Women (not simply in
the category of Old).
But there were only three of us, and in early 2001 you couldn’t
get a crowd out to a demo in San Diego, especially midweek.
We hit on the idea of a press conference, of inviting women
from the widest spectrum of organizations—that included
homeless and Hispanic low-income housing groups, but also
SEIU, the Older Women’s League, Welfare Warriors, and
a low-income single parents’ group—to speak about
how the women in their groups were affected by the escalating
rents in San Diego. It was the first housing demonstration
in San Diego, a decent crowd did show up, it was widely covered
in the media, and it launched the affordable housing movement
here. It was unashamedly feminist: Our flyers read “Why
is the housing crisis a women’s issue? Because most
women’s work is unpaid or low paid,” with facts
and statistics. The Old Women’s Project was launched. |
Some
Thoughts on Size |
If you call
yourself an organization, even if you are only three people,
you will be respected as an organization. As representatives
of the Old Women’s Project, we’re asked to speak
at rallies and council meetings, endorse statements, join
coalitions. People know we’re three women, but they
like our politics and know we care about their issues because
we see them as ours.
We used to feel qualms about being a tiny, closed group of
white middle-class women. Lasting social change is, of course,
created by grassroots work involving many diverse people.
But since an important part of our mission is to support those
efforts (and make visible old women’s stake in those
issues), we’ve come to see that there are many different
valuable ways of working across color and class. Meanwhile,
a small dedicated group has some great advantages: it’s
efficient (you don’t have to process everything endlessly);
it’s more flexible (you can move rapidly as things change—and
things will change); and it can be more inspiring, because
the message doesn’t have to be set by committee.
We’ve developed a guideline for any action we do: We
must come up with something that we will feel is worth doing
even if no media shows up and/or if it is just the three of
us. So if 400 women show up, it’s a demonstration. If
it’s just us, it’s street theater. For example,
our most recent, pre-election action was: Get Bush’s
Empire Off Women’s Backs. Women came dressed in red,
we pinned signs to our backs of Bush’s face with a slash
through it and on our chests OFF OUR BACKS, we carried a large
banner, and Cynthia carried a Bush puppet (a thrift store
suit stuffed with newspaper and a Bush mask with a crown)
on her back; we chanted “Off Women’s Backs in
Afghanistan! Off Women’s Backs in Iraq! Off Women’s
Backs in Africa! Off Women’s Backs at Home!” Almost
a hundred women showed up, and two news channels, but if it
had been just us, and maybe three of our friends, with no
news coverage, we could have handed out our flyers and raised
some eyebrows and some consciousness among the downtown crowds.
Of course we want 400 women, and all the news channels, to
show up every time, but not being sizeist takes a lot of pressure
off us, and we don’t have that humiliation of feeling
dependent on the media.
Doing no-fail actions is very freeing.
Also: we’ve come to view a lot of what we do that seems
like routine preparation—flyers, e-mails, phone calls,
media alerts—as maybe just as important as how many
women actually come. It’s educating people. It’s
raising consciousness. (So we give extra attention to making
our publicity as original and interesting as possible.)
Some reusable but exciting props—for us it’s
our old woman puppet and startling t-shirts—can pull
attention to the smallest action. |
What
is Effective? |
We try not to
get hung up on measuring the effectiveness of our actions—by
numbers or any other means. After our antiwar protests, we were
contacted with preliminary inquiries by the Oprah Winfrey Show
and People Magazine. It didn’t stop the war. Our housing
action was considered a huge success and it started a process
that forced the City Council to declare a housing emergency
in San Diego. There’s still a housing emergency. So it’s
probably true that change is one person at a time—but
since we never know where that one person will be, we need to
be there to change them. |
Money |
Our big expense
has been our web site. When we expanded it we had to hire a
web master, and though she’s a friend who gave us a “family”
rate, it’s cost us almost $1000. The web site is important
to us, because it’s an educational tool, but we were effective
long before we had it—for most groups it’s not necessary.
Otherwise, our costs are flyers, t-shirts and posterboard. We’ve
splurged on flyers, using colored paper and handing out a great
many before the events, because we believe that’s an important
part of what we do, whether women who see them come to our actions
or not. We try to make our flyers educational, brazenly feminist
and at least a little unconventional, both visually and in the
text. (two examples: “WAR IS VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN”
or “GET BUSH’S EMPIRE OFF WOMEN’S BACKS.”) |
Skills
or Lack of |
It’s
not necessary, but the more pleasing or interesting to the
eye your posters and flyers or banners are, the better. People
will just pay more attention. So if you’re artistically
challenged, it’s great if you can make friends with
somebody who isn’t.
The same goes for how flyers are written.
The three of us, like many people, detested the idea of public
speaking, but we worked up to it and even find we love it.
Our biggest discovery was that we can read a prepared script
(even if we’re speaking for only two minutes to a city
council meeting) and still pass as great public speakers.
Brevity, conviction and a minimum number of facts count for
a lot. Before we have to talk to the media without our notes,
we review talking points. Like politicians, we’ve learned
not to get suckered into answering their questions and instead
to just keep repeating what we want to say. Sometimes we’re
great at it, sometimes not, but we survive, knowing if we
really messed up, they wouldn’t put it on the air. |
Time
|
We did put
a lot of time into our first Low-cost Housing action, but
that was ambitious and even though we did all of the organizing,
it took time to involve other people as principals in the
action. One of our actions—women at a mall wearing black
with shopping bags that read Women Don’t Buy This War—we
put together in twelve very part-time days. It drew 382 women.
One very effective quick-and-dirty action, which also requires
only one or two people, is to find a cultural event that meshes
with a concern you have—maybe housing for a performance
of Raisin in the Sun—and make up a good flyer that helps
people to see your concern in a somewhat new light. When the
Vagina Monologues played in San Diego during the buildup to
the Iraq War, we handed out flyers that said, “War Is
Violence Against Women,” with the U.N. report that “modern
warfare has a woman’s face” and statistics on
the budget for war vs. domestic needs. The beauty is that
people waiting for a curtain to go up have nothing to do but
read your flyer. |
Different
Kinds of Actions |
There’s
more than one kind of valuable action, and it’s probably
helpful to know which one we’re doing. Most actions
are by formula, and these are necessary and effective when
we have a short-term goal—you just found out that Bush
is coming to town right after he nominated a fundamentalist
justice to the Supreme Court. O.K.—organize sign-making
and chants, use phone and e-mail to get out protesters, pick
a couple of speakers, arrange a sound system, recruit peacekeepers,
send out a media release, make up talking points, call or
fax media the day of the event.
As individuals we engage in formula actions, because we know
their importance. As The Old Women’s Project, we’ve
chosen to emphasize longer-term goals. That is, not simply
to express our protest or alert people to an immediate issue,
but to change, even a little, how people see things. Somebody
(we wish we could credit them) said: “The opposite of
war isn’t peace. It’s creativity.” And maybe
the opposite of systemic injustice isn’t simple protest—it’s
creativity.
Of course, just being The Old Women’s Project helps
people see things in a fresh way, as do our Old Women Are
Your Future t-shirts. These days women-only actions are rare
enough to seem fresh again. When we needed to protest the
Israeli occupation, we marched and vigiled in support of an
82-year-old Israeli woman, Yaffa Yarkoni, a “national
hero” who had been harshly sanctioned for speaking out
against the invasion. OWP’s protests against the Iraq
War focus on the war’s impact on women. As much as we
value the formula, we’re always looking for the moment
and the way to go beyond it. That may also help us avoid burnout.
The years ahead will surely be challenging ones for activists.
We become activists because we want to do what we can to change
violence and injustice and indifference, and we will have
days when we feel it is just too late, too overwhelming. On
those days, we can remember that activism is also a way to
make sure that the violence, the injustice, the indifference
don’t change us. For The Old Women’s Project,
our actions create a little world in which our values are
projected not only for others but for ourselves. They keep
us clear.
But whether you choose the formula or something more adventurous,
we need your activism. We need it now. |
The
Old Women’s Project is Mannie Garza, Janice Keaffaber
and Cynthia Rich. Please visit our web site www.oldwomensproject.org
to find out more about us, to see pictures of some of our actions,
and for consciousness raising about ageism as a central feminist
issue. We welcome any comments or questions. Send them to info@oldwomensproject.org.
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